See, dear listener, it's not up to us to fix anyone but ourselves. We can offer people space, love, and attention, but as far as fixing goes. You are not a savior! You are not their only hope! You can't fix your kids even as a parent. You can't fix your spouse even though you're married. You can't fix your employees by yelling or your boss by "making it obvious". Hell, I can't even fix my patients. They have to do that themselves!
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Using anger or hate or getting loud will only make it FEEL like things are improving for a short term, but will NEVER make a long term positive change.
But we love to hate on ourselves for both present and past (sometimes decades in the past) because it's easy and it seems like such an immediate change, but it won't ever last long.
Trying to be perfect will lead to failure, which then leads to you hating on yourself until you can try it all over again. "I will get it this time. This time is different!"
Except it's not. Not until you change your approach.
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Most people have no idea where the hell they are going. Even fewer have a clear idea of where they even are currently. Time to get focused.
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