Who do you have that is going to tell you how things are? No sugar coating, no being easy on you, but is going to push you to new heights?
Why is it that the BEST in every profession has a coach (when they themselves could in fact coach), it's because they know they can always improve. It's not being weak to ask for help, it's a sign of strength!
Choose one of your top 5 goals and commit to finding a coach or accountability partner (not living in your house or your bestie) - that will commit to pushing you higher than you even known.